Friday, December 16, 2011

38 Weeks!

Sorry - I am again posting a few days late. On Wednesday, our little Henry hit the 38 week mark and is now in his final week! Since we will be having our c-section on Monday, he will be 38 weeks and 5 days when he is born. The last bits of vernix caseosa (the white goo keeping his skin moist) and lanugo (downy hair) are slowly shedding into the amniotic fluid. Henry's head is about the same circumference as his abdomen and his head could be covered in an inch or so of hair.

I am SO incredibly excited that we get to meet our son on Monday. I am a little nervous, especially with the c-section, but overall I am mostly just excited to meet him. Only 3 days to go!

I took some pictures of the finalized baby nook today. We are all set and ready for his arrival!

The full nook:



The rocking chair:



The crib:







Luke plays on a wiffleball team and all of the guys signed a baseball for little Henry. Such a special gift:



Luke's team wiffleball jersey, made into a onesie:



38 Week Bump Picture:



Thank you all for your prayers, emails, texts and phone calls about Penny. She is still hanging in there but probably only has a couple of days left with us. Keep those prayers coming. We can feel them!

Monday, December 12, 2011

Circle of Life

While this is an incredibly happy time for Luke and I as we look forward to the birth of our son (one week from today!), I am also overcome with sadness as we are about to say goodbye to someone very special, my step-mom Penny.

Penny has been battling ovarian cancer for over two years now and she has been quite the fighter. It has been amazing to see how she has handled this situation with so much grace and fortitude. She is now in her final days with us and we appreciate your thoughts and prayers for peace for Penny and strength for our family.

For updates on how Penny is doing, you can click here to read Penny's blog that my aunt Kathleen (Penny's sister) has been updating.

Thursday, December 8, 2011

37 Weeks - Full-Term!

Yesterday Henry officially became considered full-term! He could potentially come at any day and be completely healthy. I feel so thankful that we have reached this milestone.

We found out at our doctor's appointment yesterday that Henry is still breech. We declined the version procedure, so we have been scheduled for a c-section on Monday, December 19th at 4:00 PM! We are so excited we can hardly stand it. It's so exciting to know that we will get to meet our son on that day and we are thrilled that we will be home together as a family by Christmas.

Luke and I have kicked ourselves in the pants regarding our to-do list. We are determined to have everything done by the 19th. It's a long list, but I am hopeful! :)

Henry is now the size of a watermelon! Our now full-term (yay!) baby is gaining about 1/2 ounce a day and getting his first sticky poop (called meconium) ready. He's also brushing up on skills for the outside world: blinking, sucking, inhaling, exhaling, and gripping (he's getting strong!).



37 Week Bump Picture:

Monday, December 5, 2011

Kidney Infection Update

Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers for my infection and for Henry. I am happy to report that I am feeling much better after my kidney infection. I will wrap up my round of antibiotics tomorrow and I am no longer needing to take any Tylenol for the pain.

I have faithfully been doing my at-home exercises to try to get Henry to flip on his own. But from what I can tell, it's been unsuccessful. I don't feel like he has flipped and I am feeling all of the same movements and pressure as before. If he hasn't flipped by Wednesday, Luke and I have decided not to pursue the version procedure and plan to schedule our c-section for Wednesday, December 21st. We will find out more at our doctor appointment this Wednesday.

Thank you again for sending positive thoughts our way! We are looking forward to meeting our little one in just two short weeks!

Thursday, December 1, 2011

36 Weeks!

Sorry, I am posting a day late. Yesterday we reached 36 weeks! Henry is still the size of a honeydew. His skin is getting smooth and soft, his gums are rigid, his liver and kidneys are in working order, and his circulation and immune system are basically good to go. His lungs are the only organs that still need to fully mature, but every day he gets a little closer to breathing on his own. Next week we will officially be full term! And since today is December 1st, I will hopefully be getting to meet my son THIS MONTH!

The last 48 hours have been quite the whirlwind. On Monday night, I started getting some lower back pain. I didn't think much of it, just thought my back was sore from pregnancy. Around 2:00 AM on Tuesday morning, I woke up with really intense pain in my back and sides. I knew that back pain could be a sign of labor, so I went out into the living room to try to focus and see if I was having contractions. But instead of the pain coming and going in waves like contractions, it was just getting steadily more intense. It felt exactly like the pain I had about a year ago from a kidney infection. Around 5:00 AM, I couldn't stand the pain any longer and I decided to call labor and delivery. When I called, they asked me to come in. So I woke up Luke and we headed to the hospital.

When I arrived, they checked us into Triage and had me change into a hospital gown. They took a urine sample, which they sent for urinalysis. They also took a blood sample. Then they had me get into a bed and they hooked me up to two monitors, one to monitor the baby's heartbeat and one to monitor my contractions. The monitors revealed that Henry's heartbeat was totally normal but I was having steady contractions about 5-6 minutes apart, lasting about a minute. The contractions weren't painful but were pretty constant. The nurse checked my cervix and I was 1 centimeter dilated but 0% effaced.

After about an hour of monitoring, they sent me to another part of the hospital for an ultrasound of my bladder and kidneys to check for kidney stones. Thankfully, the ultrasound showed that I didn't have kidney stones. However, during the ultrasound, they discovered that little Henry is in the Frank Breech position, which means his head and feet are up by my ribs and his bottom is down by my cervix. A picture of his position is below:



After the ultrasound, we were taken back to labor and delivery for more monitoring. By this time, I was completely exhausted. The nurse called my doctor with the results of the urinalysis, blood test and ultrasound. It turns out that I had a very high white blood cell count and blood in my urine, indicating a urinary tract and kidney infection. They monitored me for another hour and since I was still having contractions, they gave me a shot of Terbutaline to stop by contractions. The shot worked instantly, stopping my contractions but made me feel very woozy. My heart started racing and I felt really dizzy. Luke went and got me some crackers, which seemed to help a little bit.

After the shot, I was finally able to go home with a prescription for antibiotics for the kidney infection. We got back home around noon. Since I am pregnant, I am only able to take normal dosages of Tylenol for the pain, which is nowhere near enough. On Tuesday afternoon/evening, I was in a lot of pain. Every moment I made brought tears to my eyes. Thankfully, I am slowly but surely starting to feel better.

Yesterday afternoon, I had one of my regular doctor appointments. We talked about Henry's breech position and what it meant for his delivery. Unfortunately, it's not safe to delivery Henry vaginally in a breech position. Since he would be coming out butt first, it's possible that his head could get stuck in the birth canal, causing serious complications. My doctor gave me some exercises to do at home this week to try to get Henry to flip around on his own. If he doesn’t flip on his own, the doctor has offered to try a “version” at my appointment next week, which is to try to flip Henry manually by pushing on my stomach and rotating him. From what I have heard, a version can be very painful and isn’t very successful. My doctor told me that with Henry’s position and the fact that I am a first time mom (which means I don’t have a very flexible uterus), there is only a 30% chance that a version would actually work. There are also many risks involved in a version, including the possibility of fetal distress, the procedure breaking my water, the cord getting wrapped around the baby’s neck and more. All of which could result in an emergency C-section at only 37 weeks gestation. The version is optional and at this point I am leaning towards not having the procedure done. It just seems too risky for only a 30% chance of success.

If Henry is still breech next week and we elect to not have the version done, we will most likely need to schedule a C-section, which my doctor said could be done as soon as December 21st. While a C-section certainly isn’t ideal, I am really not heartbroken about not being able to have a vaginal delivery. Everything happens for a reason.

At this point, I am just trying to recover from the kidney infection and focus on my exercises to try to get Henry to flip on his own. But it’s pretty exciting to think that I will most likely be meeting my son in less than 3 weeks! I can’t wait!

36 Week Bump Picture:

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

35/35

We are at 35 weeks today! And that means only 35 days left until my due date. Still keeping those fingers crossed that he comes early. I am SO SO SO uncomfortable. I woke up today and I swear my ankles were twice their normal size. I actually also felt like my legs were swollen. My back and pelvis are also feeling sore. Boy oh boy, I can't wait to get my body back.

From now on, Henry's growth is mostly in the plumping up department - though he won't get much longer, he'll put on a pound or more of baby fat before birth. (He's about 15 percent right now and will be about 30 percent by full-term.) His hearing is totally developed and his testes have completed their descent.

35 Week Bump Picture:

Monday, November 21, 2011

Childbirth Classes

This past Saturday, we had our first childbirth class. It was an all day class (9:00 AM - 5:00 PM) that covered labor and delivery. We learned all about labor signs, how to cope during contractions and we watched three birth videos (a natural delivery, an epidural delivery and a C-section delivery). It was pretty intense but contained a bunch of helpful information. Luke and I are now experts! :) It was helpful to hear about the early signs of labor and to understand what our options are in terms of medication, etc.

During the class, we did an exercise that was supposed to simulate the discomfort of a contraction and how to try to relax through it. We had to squeeze an ice cube in our hand for a minute while our "partner" (Luke) tried to help us relax. It was awful! Holding an ice cube for that long is super painful and it made me realize how low my pain threshold really is. If I can't hold an ice cube in my hand for ONE MINUTE, how the heck am I going to make it through labor?! I am leaning towards getting the epidural for sure.

Luke and I were the only couple from the U.S. in the class. There were couples there from all over the world - Africa, China, India, etc. - very diverse! It was fun to hear the different perspectives on labor and delivery, newborn care, etc.

At the very end of the class, we were given a tour of the childbirth center. It was incredible! The childbirth center was recently renovated and I could not be happier about where we will get to meet little Henry for the first time. All of the rooms are private and include a bed, rocking chair, birthing ball and tub. The lights are dimmed and they have a flat screen TV. I keep thinking about that room and how relaxing it looks. It will be perfect. I plan to labor at home as much as possible before heading to the hospital but it's nice to know that we will enjoy the room once we get there.

Overall, it was a helpful class. We were supposed to have a second class on Sunday to learn about newborn care but I ended up having a family emergency so we are finishing the class on November 30th.

Only about a month to go!